It's my birthday today! Actually, not only that but it's my golden birthday! And honestly, it sucks. This time of year is all about family and the surrounding holidays and it is exhausting to try and squeeze in something a bit selfish like a birthday celebration. I've learned how to party in small ways though as I do like birthdays so here are a few tips if a special day of yours has this problem too.

1. Remind others
• Don't be embarrassed or secretive about it being your birthday. Getting older or singling yourself out as someone worthy of a few kind words is something totally acceptable. Be proud that today is your day and that it is one worth celebrating. Don't hold back and instead encourage others to celebrate with you; I find that usually they are glad that you shared with them so they can share it with you.
2. Pamper yourself
• Make yourself feel good by looking good. Get your hair or nails done, wear (and/or buy) a new shirt, or just take that extra long shower in the morning and shave your legs. Dressing up a little bit can make a regular work day feel that extra little bit special. No one can make you feel as special as you can for yourself!
3. Eat chocolate
• Yeah, chocolate is always a good idea. :-) The simple indulgences are sometimes the best ones and so if you don't want a huge birthday cake you have to eat yourself (and then feel guilty over), splurge on something tasty that you don't often do. Your birthday comes only once a year so take advantage of it!